Quantum Healing 4 U

Here we are once again! This is the time of the year when everyone is thinking of their New Year “Resolutions”. Are you one of the many that have seen these New Year resolutions come and go… resolutions that were short lived? Have you struggled with goals all your life because you were feeling unfulfilled, fearful, anxious, angry, stuck, overwhelmed, unfocused, procrastinate and too often physically sick?

You read about these great “Tips” or watch videos on “How to’s” to move you forward and yet these feelings kept coming back impairing your chances of success! I maybe that emotional “Engram” or “imprint” is at cause – Don’t ignore them, they are the why you are NOT moving forward in life!

Engram is the term for embedded trauma, painful incident, violent event or abuses causing tension or stress in the physical. And “Biological sedimentation” is the term that refers to the piling of layers of events, incidents, traumas, injuries, infections, pain, pathology, anger, fears, shocks… or “Engrams”. I often use the term “Cellular Consciousness” to refer to the complete memory of all our experiences that we each carry in our bodies from the day of our conception to now.

From the time you are born your subconscious mind has been exposed to “programs” or “beliefs system” from your parents ‘s own generational sets of program, the environment, and others influential caregivers. You quickly learned that your actions or behaviors created emotional responses, positive or negative in yourself and on the people around you,  and to “feel” more of  these emotions you had to repeat that behavior.

Ultimately, your were constantly aiming at generating approval and to receive LOVE from your caregivers.  More you, the ego-mind learned to identify with the “thoughts” of who you perceived to be based on the feedback your behavior generated.  “I am a good girl and I feel loved by mom when I put my toys away… ” I am a bad boy when I hurt my little brother and dad don’t love me because he send me to my room” etc…Bob Hoffman, creator of the Hoffman Process, at the Hoffman Institute called this the “Negative Love Syndrome”.  The good news here is that YOU are NOT your THOUGHTS!!!

Also, Neurologist, Dr. Sigmund Freud, later father of Psychology knew very well that the source of every symptom in the body has a Subconscious Emotional pattern associated with. When that emotional pattern is triggered the body responded with a biochemical chain reaction – sending red flags to pay attention – It became in the habits to suppress symptoms with medications, therefore people lost the connection with their own internal communication. The body stores these layers in its memory bank in the Subconscious mind affecting current level of health: structural (spine-bones), biochemical (body fluids- cells- organs), mental (neuro-connection-negative self-talk), emotional (negative feelings) and spiritual layer (lack of trust-Disbelief/loss of faith).

Further, these “Engram” mix with negative self-talk, thoughts, feelings and emotions create Neuropetides with receptors in the brain. Dr. Candice Pert* called this process “emotions and mind-body communication”. These Neuro-pathways are reinforced each time similar events occur. The responsibility of the “Ego-mind” is to create situations and events that will match-up to our “dominant feeling” in the brain – and to satisfy these receptors with neuropeptides – Each time more and more is demanded! Now you have become “addicted” to your negative emotions! As adults, we tend to recapitulate/reproduce the very behaviors we used to win our parents’ love.

These behavior patterns or “Recapitulations” play out in your adult lives as well. Many people perpetuate and attracted relationships that are similar to what they experienced with their parents because this was how they learned about love. Recapitulate means “to repeat in concise form.”. There are many kinds of recapitulations; all are ways of creating situations that allow a person to continue to deal with unresolved feelings, situations, energy, etc. (See my Sept. Blog)

Be aware that one of the most common Ego-mind strategies or defense mechanisms people use to suppress their negative memories and feelings is self-medication with alcohol, drugs and foods, which become addictions and jeopardize further their physical health.

None of us can make changes in the world without first making a change within ourselves. This is the premise of Quantum Healing4U. My work is about understanding people’s unique perceptions of reality and working with them to help set and reach goals and overcoming barriers to success. I teach how to use patterns in human behavior to make effective changes with NLP and Hypnotherapy. NLP is the study of creating EXCELLENCE by giving more STRATEGIES and CHOICES to achieve success in all areas of life, health, relationships, careers, business, money, and performance. With NLP you are able to “re-pattern” and create new perceptions of your reality. Changing your perceptions of the past “engram” will change your present and future!

Now you know why your goals or dreams never realized! As to your New Year Resolutions, after healing has occurred choose to be committed to Yourself – choose INTENTIONS that reflect a step by step “action plan” using the SMART model:

Specific-Measurable-Attainable-Risky- Timely (according to who?)

Please join the many people that have found health, joy and balance in their life again from releasing their embedded self-limitations.

Happy 2011!

*Dr. Candace Pert’s over 25 years interest and research into neuropeptide receptors in the brain and later, the immune system provided a biochemical basis for interdependent communication between mind and body and contributed to the emergence of the field of psychoneuroimmunology